So, the usual person from FB that I regularly quote just quoted me as I gave her advice:
“There is something out there that will be the best for you. If this didn’t work, it wasn’t meant to because it wasn’t the best thing that is intended… for you. There will always be the best thing, no matter what. Think of how much better it’ll be if this didn’t work.”
It would appear the Cass who gives good advice is returning.